It’s Okay to Be a Single Mom: Embracing God’s Plans
For much of my life, I thought I had it all figured out. You know, the classic script—get married, raise a family, and live happily ever after. But God had different plans for me. Twice divorced, now in my 50s, and raising two amazing kids—a senior in college and a senior in high school—my life looks different than I ever imagined. Yet, as I walk this path, I’ve discovered something deeper, something more profound. It’s not about my plans; it’s about God’s plans.
I’ll be honest—being a single mom hasn’t always been easy. There were days when I felt overwhelmed, uncertain, and downright discouraged. But through every hardship, God, in His infinite love and wisdom, has been my constant source of strength. His Word reminds us, “For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future” (Jeremiah 29:11). These words have been my lifeline. God’s grace has carried me through every struggle, and I’ve learned that my worth isn’t found in my relationship status, but in my relationship with Him.
This journey has been one of growth, faith, and discovery. Going back to school while raising my children in my 50s has been both challenging and rewarding. It has reminded me that it’s never too late to chase new dreams, especially the ones God has planted in our hearts. As I’ve gotten older, I’ve realized that aging isn’t something to fear, but rather an opportunity to embrace the fullness of God’s calling. “Even to your old age and gray hairs I am He, I am He who will sustain you” (Isaiah 46:4). God’s promises are true no matter our age, and I’m learning to walk in His grace every day.
What I’ve come to understand is that being single doesn’t mean being incomplete. In fact, it’s in this season of singleness that I’ve drawn closer to God than ever before. I’ve learned to lean into His purpose for my life, trusting that He knows exactly where He’s leading me. “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to Him, and He will make your paths straight” (Proverbs 3:5-6). These verses have been my anchor as I continue to walk in faith, surrendering my plans for His greater purpose.
If you’re walking a similar path, know that you are not alone. God has plans for you too, and His plans are good. Whether you’re a single mom, twice divorced, or just navigating a new season of life, trust that God’s timing is perfect. It’s okay to not have everything figured out—He’s got you.
So, embrace where you are. Embrace being a single mom, embrace the unknown, and embrace God’s purpose. He is with you every step of the way, holding you close and guiding your path. “The Lord will fight for you; you need only to be still” (Exodus 14:14).
You are loved, you are enough, and you are exactly where God wants you to be.
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Jennifer Kalina 